that post was not meant to put anybody down or make anyone cry :[ or anything!
i can also relate to stds because i know someone also who has died from aids though it wasnt family
and i have had my own stds scares where i had to go to the doctor and get it checked out and get tested and everything
i still dont think its quite a crime to just say that i am relieved to not have gotten a sexually transmitted disease
i suppose i posted this thinking it would be ok in this community and once again i want to say im sorry!