BeachWaves5150 (cornerkicks99) wrote in vaginapagina,

Pregnancy Scared

Hi all. This is my first time using this site and I'm trying to navigate it properly. I have a bit of a dilemma.

So last week my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time. I am 18. That is when I lost my virginity. That was the 11th day out of my usual 31 day cycle, Which typically means I would not be ovulating until around cycle days 16,17, or 18 I believe. The thing is, we used a brand new condom that was no where close to expiring, I kept it out of sunlight and hot temperatures, made sure it was never squished, and when we put it on we did everything right except at first it was on inside out so it was just a simple flip and everything after that was fine. I understand precum can be dangerous but he had not ejaculated for two days prior and had obviously urinated many times since. And precum was also not actually SEEN while putting the condom on. (Would there still be any risk with that?) The condom was on the entire time also. Straight from the shorts into the comdom lol. When we were finished he took it off properly and all of the ejaculate seemed to have been at the tip of the condom like normal and it didn't seem to have failed at all. But I am still panicking a lot!

I'm not sure if I should be panicking but I am and I'm not sure if it is justified or just because it is normal to panic when you first become sexually active. I am not on any other form of birth control yet. My next period is also expected to come July 15th. So I have two weeks of panicking.

I will include that I have been feeling crampy lately and (sorry) I can't seemed to go #2 that well. I honestly think that that is due to the amount of stress I'm undergoing. And my lower back has been hurting but I think that is probably from the constipation (maybe tmi sorry). But also I read that I would not be feeling pregnancy symptoms yet anyway.

I'm just really anxious and stressed out and so worried. Can someone please try to tell me what my chances of being pregnant are? (Even though it was protected and only ONE time?)

Please reply! Thank you!
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