~Castiel~ (thusbands) wrote in vaginapagina,

Painful sex

I've been trying to figure this out for almost a year now. Back in November 2013 I got Skyla. Before then I never really had problems with sex. If we were rough or I was dry then I might be a little sore after but otherwise we were good. I also wanted sex most days. Once I got skyla I had really bad cramps and spotting for 2 months. I finally couldn't take it any more and had it taken out. It also made sex extremely painful. We then went to condoms. With the condoms I noticed I dried out a lot faster and I would hurt for a day afterwards. Like a burning pain at the entrance of my vagina. Then we started using lube and changed from latex to non latex. The lube helped a little. Then I went back on the pill and we ditched the condoms but I still had the same problem. It burns more when he finishes inside me but it happens either way. Since sex is painful I rarely want to do it. He obviously feels like I don't like him anymore which isn't true. I just don't want to have painful sex and it's kind of a vicious cycle. I'm afraid it's going to hurt which makes me not as in to it and it ends up hurting. My question is do you have any idea what might be going on? I've wondered if I'm allergic to his cum but it happens when he doesn't finish in there. I've also just recently wondered if it could be the soap he uses. I know he rinses it off but maybe there's residue that irritates me? I've also wondered if it's BV. I don't have any other symptoms besides the burning after sex though. I had an STI screen over a year ago and it was clear so I don't think there's any chance it's something like that. I'm seriously thinking that maybe the skyla changed my balance down there and I'm not sure how to make it go back to normal. I've heard of yogurt and boric acid but I'm not sure how to get that. Should I make an appointment with my doctor? I need a pap soon anyways. Is there something I can try until I can get in to see her?
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