I have a frustrating thing happening and I've been researching the internet for this. I'm not a young, inexperienced woman. So, I'm a bit embarrassed that I don't already know the answer. Furthermore, I don't recall if this has been happening forever or if it's a new thing. I will empty my bladder beforehand and then during the process of foreplay my bladder completely fills up. It's extremely frustrating. I've tried to research online and there seems to be a lot of talk about female ejaculation that can feel similar to the need to urinate. And, although I didn't know about this and don't think I've ever experienced this, I don't believe this is what I'm dealing with. I do know that when I go to the bathroom afterward I have a full bladder at that point. It's really getting in the way of prolonged enjoyment.