So, my s/o informs me the other day that my vagina sometimes just doesn't smell great to them. This has been my sneaking suspicion after repeated avoiding of going down there save for the odd occurrence once in a blue moon.
Now, I value their honesty (even though it took since the start of our relationship to say anything), they say it's not all the time and when it smells nice they really enjoy giving me oral.
My s/o said I should try managing with perfumes or scented lotions, to which I informed them that's not how it works and it's unhealthy for your vagina.
I DO want to make this better for them, and it has been a huge blow to my self esteem to know my paranoia was right all these years, and I know they didn't want to hurt me.
So my issue is I AM STUCK. I have been checked for infections, so let's rule that out. I just think it's a natural body odour smell they don't like.
How do I mellow it out? I know musky vaginal odour is pretty normal, but I want to know if there is a safe, non-vagina ruining method to reduce it for the sake of my sanity and sex life.