I hope this is an ok topic area to be posting about. Basically I have never been able to come through penetrative or oral sex with a man. I can very easily on my man. I have very precisely instructed guys what to do and it still doesn't work. I still enjoy the sex a lot and I feel really relaxed so I don't know what the problem is. Does anyone else have this issue? I can tell it makes my Boyfriend feel quite crap because he thinks he's not doing a good job, when he is.