But basically, I've been sexually active with my boyfriend for a while now and every now and then I experience a bit of pain the day after, normally it goes within that day and it's completely fine.
However we last had sex on tuesday night and it still hurts. I had a look and there appears to be a small tear around my vaginal opening I believe. It's not as painful as it initially was, it hurt to sit for the first day.
I'm seeing him tonight and I want to have sex, I can deal with the little bit of pain and he will be here for a few days before we are away from each other for a month.
Would it be okay for me to just have intercourse anyway? I've done it before when I was still a little sore and it hurt for a few minutes but then was completely fine and just a bit sore after. Or am I likely to make this tear worse and hurt myself further?
I've never had a tear before, so I don't really know anything about it! I'm not sure if there's anything I can do to help heal it or to just leave it alone.