1) I am currently about 12-13 weeks and will be having an abortion , ive never wanted kids so it was a pretty easy decision for me. Im hoping that i maintain this emotional "strength" but i have no idea how ill feel after. those of you who went into it already knowing for pretty much your entire life that you didnt want kids .. did your mind change after the procedure ? did you feel any regret etc?
2) i know im farther a long than most people whos experiences ive read about on here . will the process be any different for me? will i be able to be back to "normal" as quickly , assuming there are no complications?
3) I have developed quite the bump .. don't know if its so noticeable because im a very slim girl (5'6 98lbs) but its definitely a lot more visible than i thought a 3 month pregnant bump would be. will the bump reduce immediately after the procedure ? or does it take a while to subside.
i will definitely posting about my experience afterwards. I do feel very silly for not being more pre cautious about using protection while getting off the pill .. ive always been very good about this , as ive never wanted kids, but i made that one mistake .. im nervous about explaining myself to the councillor at the clinic .. im probably overthinking things but i dont want to be seen as some 21 year old who is careless .. if that makes sense ? this isnt really a question but i guess im just looking for reassurance.
thank you all for taking the time to read / help me out :)