I've been with my boyfriend for well over a year and it's been a really good relationship. I usually give him oral sex at least once every night if not every other day. I don't mind it, since I enjoy and I know he loves it as well. However, he never returns the favor. We never have foreplay and the common excuse is always "I'm too tired" or "We can do it later". It's gotten to the point where I don't even feel wanted by him sexually. :( Should I just "protest" oral sex in general and see what happens?