I'm writing to ask for leads to authoritative articles on herpes. Specifically, I'm curious about the risk of transmission during oral sex, as well as how much risk is lowered if someone already has one strain. I have had genital herpes for well over a decade, and am asking for a new partner, who wants to be armed with ALL THE DATA before deciding whether to fool around with me. I already have the Herpes Handbook, which is a great resource and has numbers on transmission risks for PIV with and without condoms and suppressive medication. I'm just having trouble finding data on the two topics I mentioned. I know these topics have been discussed in this forum many times, and I searched, but didn't see any citations.
Thanks in advance!