Me and my husband have been together for 2yrs. Right b4 we met his ex told him that she may have herpes so he needed to be checked. His tests all came back negative. I'm pretty sure when I was in my early 20s my gyno checked me for STD's (i.e. Chlamydia and Gonnorhea but I can't be 100% sure since I've been getting conflicting info about when and wat doctors usually check a woman for STD's). Anyway, my last ex was a bit shady about stuff and I told my gyno that he was questionable but my gyno told me that if I didnt c anything weird chances were I didnt have anything but if I do find something weird then I needed to let him kno. Well I never found anything weird..this was 2yrs ago..Back in 04 or 05, I was diagnosed with HPV but it was anal HPV and I've never had anal sex so idek how that happened..But my PCP was specifically asked to do a HPV test about 3 or 4 yrs ago and he said everything came back normal..Ok, so my husband definitely doesnt have anything when we met, I could've been a carrier of Chlamydia and not known about it, I'll admit that..but how could I have not known for 2yrs and with me getting regular PAP Smears wouldnt my gyno have suspected something if he'd seen anything like discharge or something?? I go to the ER about 2wks ago and thought I had a yeast infection (i'm prone to em bc i'm diabetic and i do have uti's sometimes but not really had a bad one in a yr or so) turns out I had Chlamydia and BV. The week b4 that, our mutual GF told us she had a uti and a ruptured ovarian cyst. She said she got tested on her 2nd visit to her PCP to follow up and all STD's were negative. My husband had been having sex with us both b4, after, during all this time. We've been a polytriad since April. Like I said, my husband and I have been together and very faithful to one another for almost 2yrs. Wat happened?? my husband thinx she may have had Chlamydia this 1x b4, she told us she did a while ago and it cleared it, and maybe she didnt get it cleared up like she thought and was the carrier or she had it in her rectum and not in her vagina and when they did a vag swab they didnt catch it -- is that even possible?? We're a bit confused and dont want to believe she cheated on us since we both of us kno we didnt cheat on anyone. I mean, I could've been a carrier but wouldnt her tests the week b4 mine have been positive for Chlamydia since we'd been having sex since April?? Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.