Okay please forgive me if I'm not supposed to post like this, anyway background; I'm 28 years old and still a virgin. And I'll admit I live under a rock about almost everything relating to sex! So this past weekend, boyfriend and I were messing around, he started "fingering" me and it was good, until he was done, and there was blood everywhere, I'm assuming he tore my hymen. So first off, is it possible to do so with just the fingers? Second, is it normal to have a burning, itching feeling a few days afterwards? and thirdly if he did tear my hymen what are the chances bleeding my first time having sex? I appreciate any input. Thank you in advance!