I lost my virginty a few days ago and it was not at all pleasurable. The whole time I was hurting real bad almost like my partner was just jabbing his penis into my skin and not my vagina. I also felt like I had to go to the bathroom right then and there but I just let him keep going at it since we both thought it was normal that I was going to be in pain. I had never put anything in myself before no finger, tampon, absolutley nothing and he wasn't exactly gentle either so that could have been a reason too. Later we tried it again and it was that same pain and feeling of needing to use the bathroom. I bled some both times and a little throughout the day. So like I said I have never stuck a finger inside of myself ( had tried a few times but always gave up) so now that I was a bit stretched I wanted to see if I could do it. I was able to put in a finger,I took it out and tried again but then I noticed some blood was coming out. I wasn't rough and I didn't go in far. It stopped bleeding after that small amount but it still freaked me out. Is it normal to be bleeding like this?