It's not that he's refused outright, he just keeps saying he will when he doesn't. We're both in the same major, so I know that he's insanely busy but I just feel like there's a certain lack of respect. I've been suffering for a year with a mysterious itchiness and multiple UTIs, and him not getting tested makes me feel really bad about having to keep reminding him.
Just on the relationship itself... I know it's not directly related to health issues, but I've been feeling bad about the whole relationship. We've both acknowledged the fact that we want to be in a long-term committed relationship and have a life together, but I don't feel like he does what he says. We get along really well, but I feel like he's not equally invested in the relationship. Is it possible that we just are invested in it, differently? Can anyone give me some perspective on this? :(