warning: this is a tad tmi!
I have been on the birth control patch off and on since I was 15. I've been on consistently since I was 19. I have skipped a total of two periods (wearing a patch on patch free week) but I've been pretty consistent with it in the 3 years I've been on it. Recently I had a camp job and was going through a lot of personal drama and stress and was spotting at the camp counselor gig. There wasn't much so I didn't think anything of it because well, stress and being more active blahbalalaha.
My best friend/fun buddy came home this past week and we have been having fun with everything but vaginal/anal penetration but with fingering, rubbing and all those good things but I've been bleeding, not a lot but two panties are definitely ruined. I don't bleed during, I will notice it after the 'fun' - it makes me worried I am infected but it doesn't smell any different than my period blood and my discharge seems to be fine too, also my period is next week as I take off my current patch this Sunday. OH also, I have a very tight vagina - it's a tad ridiculous and yes my hymen is already broken.
thanks so much! I truly am grateful for this community