M.Ross (dojikko_ross) wrote in vaginapagina,

Preparing for Impending Loss of Virginity

Hello all! I've been browsing around this community for awhile now and have been learning more than I thought I ever wanted to know about my own body. I am from a red state, and didn't have much in the way of sex education. I mean, I read, I know the mechanics of it and all, but certain anatomical subjects still evade me: I can't find my clitoris and I can't wrap my head around where or what the hell a hymen is. So I was hoping you knowledgeable gals could give me some pointers on a couple of things. See, I've been masturbating for years, but only recently gotten sexually active with another person for the first time. My boyfriend, eight years my senior, is significantly more experienced than I and probably has the same sex drive now as he did when he was a teenager. I eventually intend to "go all the way" with him, and, in anticipation, I've become even more body-conscious than your average nineteen-year-old girl.

One of the things I'd like to do is get rid of my pubic hair. My boyfriend hasn't seen me there yet and hasn't indicated that he has any preference one way or the other, but I kind of want to do it anyway, for myself. I think I personally will feel more comfortable looking that way. I've perused the different options, and even experimented with shaving a bit (and felt the negative effects), but I'm just really not sure what route is right for me. What, in your opinion, is the most cost-effective way that offers minimum pain, minimum maintenance, and maximum privacy? I am sort of thinking about an epilator or another electric device, but I'd like to know how that compares to traditional shaving.

Also, I feel like this is a stupid question, but how will masturbating effect sex? Is it possible that something I've inserted into myself has already broken my hymen, and, if so, will that make the experience any less painful or bloody? I'm easily squicked out and would hate to ruin the mood by puking at the sight of my own blood. I asked my boyfriend about pain, but he has never been with a virgin and doesn't have any idea what it will feel like for me.

If anyone has any answers or tips or anything you think I should know, I'd greatly appreciate it~!
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