Silver (i_love_freddie) wrote in vaginapagina,

Sex drive gone

I was wondering if anyone has any advise on how to handle a complete loss of sex drive. Most of the time I've been known to have a pretty high sex drive, though frequent episodes of depression can lower it slightly. But during the last two weeks it has just disappeared completely. I feel no sexual desire, no attraction towards my partner, no urge to masturbate. Reading or thinking about sex just makes me feel dirty and angry.

My partner and I are long distance and have been for three years. He has a very high sex drive and is very focused on sex - something that has caused irritation for me in the past. I can't ask him to go without sex long term, but if I force myself to have anything to do with sex while I'm like this, I risk causing myself more emotional damage.

I don't really know what to do.
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