Anonymous post: Safer sex for people with mixed herpes statuses

Greetings, fellow Superstars! As you probably know, from time to time the VP Team makes posts on behalf of people who wish to remain anonymous or who do not have LJ accounts. This is one such post. Thanks in advance for your helpful comments.

--Eli
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I am a 71 year old male HSV negative and my 70 year old girlfriend is HSV - 2 positive. We have been talking about getting more intimate. She does not want to share her problem with me, so we have been researching and talking about condoms, non intercourse sex, mutual masturbation, and other forms of sex. Any ideas?