I'll make it brief: 23 years old, started having sex about a month ago. I'm a heterosexual female.
My "problem" basically is that my boyfriend is somewhat frustrated that I don't get any pleasure from PIV sex. Well, I get SOME. But not too much... Has anybody experienced this? How did you handle it?
I guess we could try finding my G-spot... We haven't done that yet. Or masturbate while having sex (but then again, this last option still doesn't take away the "you'd rather have a hand on you than a penis" problem...)
I'm not considering it a big deal, 'cause frankly I love having sex with him, I love giving him oral sex, and well, I love him (though he doesn't know it yet, hehe). But he has told me on occasion that it somewhat upsets him that I prefer having him touch me with his fingers than having his penis inside. (Or even yesterday, when we dry-humped, his leg hit me right where I needed it, and I felt incredibly aroused. I absolutely loved it, but he thought it was disappointing that his leg felt better than his penis.)
I'm sure this is a common issue; I'm really eager to hear your take on it...