Hi kittens! :) 27/cis-female here
Random question/thought -
I've been seeing a new guy recently; we've not yet had sex, but boy howdy, does he keep me on my toes. I'm pretty much constantly turned on from our text trysts to just general fantasies about him.
As you can probably figure, I've been bringing myself to orgasm quite a bit more frequently than usual these past few days. But something I notice now and something I've experienced in the past is that the more frequently I orgasm, the harder it is to get there the next time. I always use manual stimulation on myself - I don't have toys to use, so it's really just clitoral stimulation.
Is there some kind of gating system with the nerves involved that have wound up getting a bit desensitized? I'm gonna keep my hands off myself for a while. When I've done that in the past, I've noticed a drastic change in the quickness of orgasm afterwards.
Anyone experience anything similar? Anyone know if there's a way to overcome (no pun intended!) this?