a study in silence (also_warriors) wrote in vaginapagina,
a study in silence

Anonymous post: Difficulty with penetration

Greetings, fellow Superstars! As you probably know, from time to time the VP Team makes posts on behalf of people who wish to remain anonymous or who do not have LJ accounts. This is one such post. Thanks in advance for your helpful comments. :)

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For the VP Team

I'm a 21-year-old PIV-virgin. Fiance and I are hoping to change that, however, we've faced a number of difficulties getting there. The current difficulty is this: He is above-average in size, whereas I'm the opposite. I've experimented with roughly-lifesize toys; even after orgasm, and allowing for adjusting positions (to the extent that this is possible when I'm the one wielding the toy), the maximum depth of penetration I've managed to achieve is 4 inches. After this, I feel something bumping up against me inside (I'm assuming against the cervix; it's uncomfortable and not entirely pleasant) as well as increased resistance to the toy. Mind you, this has all been solo experimentation - we're long-distance right now. Is it possible that reaching orgasm (a significant struggle in and of itself) is not necessarily an indication that I'm aroused enough for the '4 inch limit' to be good data?

Can you tell I'm a scientist yet?

At any rate, while I welcome information, I'm also looking to figure out more things I can try, to get a better handle on what exactly is going on inside my body and how best to extend the depth of penetration I can accept. I'm grateful for any advice.
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