Also, I've always heard women peek at 40 which was not my case at all. My sex drive was the strongest between 13 and early 30s - is this "peeking at 40" a myth? I know women who have told me "oh at 40 and beyond I became so sexual and my sex drive went through the roof" which is not true for me at all.
Also I was never one for cuddling, though if a partner wanted to cuddle I did, but now I'm more into cuddling and being sensual. I still love sex don't get me wrong but the experience of sex includes things I never felt was really necessary for me. People have always told me my outlook on sex was more male than female which I agree with, so all this is something that's very foreign to me, thus it's confusing as to why I feel this way now.
I was told by my doctor it could be the start of menopause, I often wonder if in 10 years will I be dried up and just want to cuddle which is a frightening thought.
Any women have advice, information or any older women who are willing to share would be very helpful? Because I do worry about this.