When I am being fingered or I'm having sex, I experience this very strong urge to pee. It's strange and a little bit uncomfortable, and often I have to ask him to stop because I feel like I'm going to go to the bathroom right there! It sucks because the first time we were able to properly have sex, I had to stop just for that reason.
Is this feeling normal? And is there a way I can control it. I've only had actual sex a grand total of 3 times.