So. My boyfriend and I have ditched the barrier method contraceptives now that I'm taking HBC. Overall, it's more enjoyable for both of us. However, I'm never entirely sure what to do afterwards. I'm not sure about any of you, but generally, after having relations, the last thing I wanna do is get up and search for my underwear and/or rush to the bathroom. However, I cannot stand the sensation of semen coming out of me (please tell me I am not the only one with a leaky vagina omg). Any time we have sex, I have to find my clothes and then hurry to the bathroom, and then I'm in there for a good five minutes. Even after I'm sure I've gotten most of it out, if I have to go about the rest of my day, whatever's left comes out at its leisure and to me, it feels incredibly uncomfortable (and I'm also so afraid I'm going to get a rash or an infection or something just from all the moisture).
Does anyone else have this problem? Is there anything other than what I'm doing (and aside from having him pull out -- that's the whole reason I'm on HBC) that will help with this? Thank you so much in advance, and please don't laugh at me. DD: