This may be upsetting for some so you do not have to read further or answer if you do not wish to. I am just looking for some real-life experience from those who have miscarried in the past. For those who have experienced a miscarriage in the first trimester, did you know it was happening/was going to happen when you miscarried? Did you bleed, cramp, etc? Or was it a complete surprise when you got your first ultrasound?