jammie_toffee (jammie_toffee) wrote in vaginapagina,

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Am I too used to 'getting off' by myself?

Hi ladies,

I have a.. problem. Before my current (one and only) SO, I could happily satisfy myself, alone.
I still can but it's generally the quick 'duvet hump'! I do this during sex with him while on top too.
Sometimes I can reach orgasm within 30 seconds this way, which I'm thinking is a little abnormal.
I don't have any time on my own now I work so much and live with him so I don't really masturbate anymore.
The problem is, I've always wanted my boy to touch me and send me to my happy place, but it just doesn't happen.
I almost don't like him touching me there, it just feels alien and I constantly move his hand away if he tries to stimulate me during sex.
This makes me feel really bad and guilty.. it's not that I don't want him to do it, and I know he wants to make me feel good, he likes doing it.
I've tried showing him the way I like it but it still doesn't feel right.
No matter how many times I demonstrate to him (by using his own hand with mine on top) it's just not happening. 
He also wants me to do it to myself during sex, he moves my hand there alot, but I feel so awkward!
Is it me? Am I doing something wrong? Or is there something I can do to make it all better?
Thanks in advance.
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