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For the VP Team
I have long cycles - an average of about 32 days. I'm currently on the end of day 39 and no period. I'm not on HBC, and seventeen days ago I had unprotected sex with my fiance (he did not ejaculate inside me - as far as we both remember he didn't get that close to orgasm). My periods have been a bit wonky lately but at the moment both of us are. freaking. out. If I were living with him I wouldn't give a toss, but I live with my mother and I'm in a... less than loving situation. Pregnancy isn't an option. In a couple of days I'm going to buy a test (because even though I'm cramping lightly, I dont' seem to be any closer to riding the cotton pony than I was 8 days ago).
What are my chances of pregnancy? Are they reasonably low (laughably low would be better, but I doubt it) or should I really be worrying as much as I am?
I have to buy the test tomorrow... are there any tips for not dying of embarrassment while I do so? If I test again in a week, am I basically guaranteed that a negative result is reliable? Assuming it's not positive, of course...
If it's positive... I don't suppose anyone has any idea the kind of wait I'd need to endure for a termination? I live in Tasmania, Australia, and I'm not familiar with how stuff works here...
Thank you for any help or reassurance you can offer.