Basically, one of my closest friends is really self-conscious about some pretty big surgical scars on her chest and stomach from an operation she had when she was a baby. The girlies have all seen them and they're really not bad, they're pretty thin and pale and not really rough to the touch.
Anyway, the whole issue's stopped her from ever getting naked with anyone and she's finally decided that she's ready to have her first physical relationship with the guy she's with.
The other day she started freaking out about how she hasn't told him yet, she feels like she's been lying to him and how she's scared that he'll get turned off or whatever. I, as well as all our other friends, told her that it's not a big deal. If he's into her, he'll overlook it. She's a smart, gorgeous girl so I'm finding it hard to see how some stupid scars could scare someone off.
So yeah, she was asking me when she should tell the guy or whether she should just wait until they're about to be intimate and then just 'surprise' him?
Any advice I can pass on would be helpful, I'm pretty horrible at telling her what I think! Thank youu. :)