do you ask people if they carry HSV/get cold sores before you kiss them? like, people ask about HSV before they have sex, but i've never heard of anyone having that talk before kissing.
i'm just asking because...i like to know before i kiss someone. but i've never heard of anyone else doing that. is that weird? what do you guys do? would you be mad if you *didn't* ask and then ended up with oral HSV? or vice versa - if you do carry HSV, do you tell your partners before kissing?