io2012 (io2012) wrote in vaginapagina,

What to do about sex drive mismatch?

I thought this would be a great open response question for the ladies in this community. I know there must be some of you out there that are like me! So I am totally in love with/devoted to my current partner. He's very sensitive, caring, and takes the time to make sure we BOTH enjoy our sexual encounters. That being said, those encounters are....less frequent than I would like. He used to get upset if I would "pester" him for sex too frequently, but we've had the "I have needs, please respect them" discussion and he's improved. Now, if I approach him about sex, he's typically willing to engage (and always seems to enjoy himself).

The punchline? If I waited for him to initiate, we might be abstinent for a loooonnnggg (weeks) time. And I would be going crazy, but I love the idea of having him "ask for it" once in a while! Suggestions? 
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