puppysnuggler83 (puppysnuggler83) wrote in vaginapagina,

Making sex more comfy?

Hello! I'm sorry if this is a really silly question, but y'all here seem to know your stuff...

Anywho, so my boyfriend and I are both quite new to sex. Neither of us had had any kind of sexual contact with another person before we got together so we're both pretty inexperienced. The sex in our relationship is pretty darn good - and getting better all the time! - but we've got a problem that I'm not quite sure how to fix.

When we have sex, it's always with me on top. Don't get me wrong, this is totes awesome and I love it, but variety is nice too! I'd really like to try things with him on top, but every time we've attempted that it hasn't worked out. He's only about an inch taller than I, and when he's on top pretty much all his weight ends up on the lower part of my ribcage, and I can't breathe (and for me, that's totally not conducive to happy sexy fun time!) He's tried sort of propping himself up on his elbows/forearms, but it didn't do much good, and I've tried putting a pillow under my torso to change the angle a little, but that also didn't work.

Has anyone else ever had this problem? How'd you fix it?
Our mattress is quite squishy, so I'm wondering if that's the culprit? If that's the case, we can't afford to spring for a new mattress right now, so is there anything else we can do? We tried the floor once (with me on top) but it was too rigid to be comfortable. Any ideas would be excellent!
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