I'm more specifically interested in getting a dildo, and I've never had one before. My bf and I are long distance and while I can quasi get off by myself, it's really never as good. I like playing with my clit during PiV, but I usually only orgasm from PiV. And my fingers just aren't cutting it. I was hoping for some recommendations and tips. I'd like something that's non-realistic and colorful. And I'd like it to be aesthetically pleasing since I'm going to be getting off with it. :) Also it'd be nice if it weren't obviously a dildo because I live with a roomate at uni. Also any advice about masturbating incognito? There have been a few close calls... oops! Thankfully she has a bf here now, so she's out more often. :P
As far as vibrators go, I think they're nice, but not completely amazing. My bf and I have used a ring thing with a vibrator on it and it was arrousing, but I don't think I orgasmed faster or anything. I like plain old penetration better. Are there any dildos that vibrate as well? On a side note I really hate the word dildo for some reason, so I looked it up on urbandictionary and found "electric banana". HAHAHA! That's what I'm calling it from now on.