My boyfriend doesn't initiate sex/sexual contact [not even kisses really] and I hate being the one that always has to do it. I'd like it to be a mutual thing. My first question is what would be the best way to broach the topic without sounding like I'm attacking him?
My second question is more about emotions-- When we first started dating he'd always make the first move [I was just a shy "virgin" back then, haha] which makes me feel that something has changed to make him want me less. How does one go about reconciling the feelings of being unwanted/undesirable? It probably sounds lame but just typing this out has made me feel as though I'm going to cry.