I'm a 20 year-old virgin. I've been attempting masturbation for over a year and I haven't had any success... I think. I don't think I've ever had an orgasm - I know some people say "you just KNOW" while others say it's not that in-your-face, but I don't think I have. While I'm masturbating I pay attention to my clit - with my fingers and/or a bullet vibrator - and it feels good, but after a moment I have to stop touching myself because it's too much. There's no climax. I've used a cloth over my clit to protect it from getting so sensitive but I just sit there getting no where. I'm going insane. I'm a pretty tense person to begin with and I'm getting more and more frustrated - obviously not conducive to masturbating but I can't help it. I've looked all over the internet for techniques on masturbation, and nothing I've found has worked. Does anyone have any ideas or tips? Or even if you could just commiserate with me over this.
(BTW I love VP, there's so much info and you all are so nice!)