Sorry I still don't have an account, I've been wanting to give an update for awhile. I got married 2 months ago to the guy I had been dating for 6 years. We waited until marriage to have sex and it turns out he has some form of erectile dysfunction. Sometimes he can get it up, sometimes it's almost normal intercourse and he can even ejaculate, but more frequently it stops after a few seconds or minutes because his erection just goes away. Not infrequently he can't even get hard at all. We've tried just about everything and I know he finds me very attractive, but it's just so inconsistent and unpredictable. I'm afraid to even try it now because his body has rejected me so many times. Our wedding night was the biggest letdown ever! It lasted one second, long enough for me to say "ow!" and then his erection died. Anyone else have this problem? I might need counseling.