ElectricEff (electriceff) wrote in vaginapagina,

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Sexual dysfunction?

Okay so here's the deal. I haven't gotten laid in over a year and I finally had sex again two days ago with my new girlfriend. Well, she tried for a long long time to make me come and I just couldn't. I couldn't even get turned on no matter what she did even with lots of foreplay. I feel like there's something really wrong with me. This isn't the first time this has happened either, I was with my ex for three years and never once had an orgasm, and sex was rarely (if ever) pleasurable for me. I'm not quite sure how to explain this clearly but like, when someone else is touching me it feels like all my senses go numb and the sensations are more annoying and ticklish than arousing, but when I touch myself it turns me on and I usually don't have any problem getting myself off. And it's the same way for everything, from foreplay to actual sex. I don't know what to do or even if there is a way to fix it. I told my best friend about this and she said you just have to get used to it, but i'm so worried that I never will. I mean, I never got used to it with my ex and we used to have a lot of sex and I don't want my new girlfriend to feel like she's doing something wrong. I'm not sure if it's because I masturbate every day or what. Any suggestions? I'm really lost and really really upset about this ):
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