Easy, Lucky, Free (memoirsofsunny) wrote in vaginapagina,
Easy, Lucky, Free

Beating a dead horse- less sex in my relationship because of his increased porn viewing?

[edit: I talked to him. He said he has no problem stopping porn or masturbation. Although I didn't ask him to stop masturbating, or viewing porn he said that it isn't a big deal, and that he will stop if it will make me feel better about our sex life. He also said that his masturbation/porn habits were not a factor that played into how often we sleep together. I asked him outright if he still finds me attractive, and that I want to know the truth, because some people can just not be attracted to each other anymore. He emphasized that this also isn't the problem, because he does still find me attractive..... I'm still a little unclear as to what is causing the lack of sex in our relationship, but we will see in the weeks to come if the absence of pornography will make his libido shoot up.

In my stubbornness, I do not want to believe that he isn't attracted to me anymore, or that he is just looking for a way to break up. I am going to see how the next few weeks play out, and if we are still having problems, I will most likely hit the high road and look for someone who's libido matches mine. 

Thank you for the help, and I guess if I have a non-vagina related question, I will post in a relationship forum! No worries. Thank you girls for all your help! Oh, and this month is Breast Cancer Awareness Month, so please don't forget to do self-exams and schedule a yearly mammogram if you're over the age of 35! :) ]
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