History: I have had herpes 1 for some time now and believe i got it when i was younger.
Present Issue: I was with this guy for 5 years and recently broke up with him. We have been broken up for 9 months now but I decided to have sex with him three days ago and unprotected(yes I know I'm stupid) and yesterday when I woke up I noticed I had a blister on my vulva. It is red and it does not hurt nor cause discomfort. As the day went on my vagina began to get all itchy and it is very red. Today, I wake up and my vagina feels swollen and my clitoris hurts and my vulva burns. I confronted my ex about this issue and he confessed by telling me that he had sex with a girl about a month ago with a condom but that she had given him oral sex.
Concerns/Questions: If it is indeed that I have herpes and my ex is telling me the truth, wouldn't he had aquired Herpes 1? since it was orally? if so, wouldn't this that I have down in my vagina be that? I thought you couldn't get herpes 1 in your vagina? Or does it become herpes 2 when you get it in your genitals from oral sex? I read some info on this site but I am very confused.
I also heard you can get bumps/blisters in your vagina from a yeast infection, is this true?
I have decided to put a picture of my vagina on my post for educational purposes only (i am of legal age and picture will be posted under cut