Easy, Lucky, Free (memoirsofsunny) wrote in vaginapagina,
Easy, Lucky, Free

Problems orgasming with boyfriend (beating a dead horse)

Yes, I posted a few days ago, but things tend to come up, and Cosmo is a shitty sex magazine to use as a go to for advice. I think you ladies have far more experience and far better advice than some glorified sex magazine.

Anyways, my problem doesn't lie in the fact that I can't orgasm. I can. I get off from clitoral stimulation, and more easily when I play with my nipples along with clitoral stimulation. I  have no trouble orgasming when I'm  masturbating. The problem lies in the fact that I can't get off with my boyfriend. He will fuck me from behind, on top, standing up, wherever, all the while rubbing my clit and all I feel is this amazing feeling in my vagina, but absolutely nothing in my clit. And the feeling never increases, or gets to that 'mountain- climbing' feeling that you get when you're about to orgasm. He gave me oral last night, and again nothing (but hey, giving me oral is a huggeee step up for him). I've even tried masturbating with him in the room, or beside me on the bed, and strangely,  I can't orgasm. I honestly think I just get kind of nervous and self-conscious when I have to perform. Or when I know he's trying to get me off, I get stage fright and just shut down. It's really odd, but I honestly just can't come when he's anywhere near me.

Is this weird? I'm sure I'm not the only one. But how do I get over this? I just want to be able to orgasm together. 
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