Also; a relationship question if this is okay. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over two years, so we have discussed multiple aspects of our relationship. Our future, possible kids, blah blah blah. (He gave up the opportunity to go to a college that he is the biggest die-hard football fan for (Alabama), to come to the college with a football team that he despises (Auburn) to be with me. If you were from the south, you would understand. It's the same thing as Yankees vs. Red Sox? Maybe? Huuuuge rivals.) Anyways, to get to the damned point, we were talking the other day and he admitted that he checks out other girls. And me, being the hypocrite that I am, blew up in his face about how much of a pervert he is and how he disgusts me; forgetting that I check out other males. He calmed me down and told me 'Hey, listen. It's not in the way that you think I do. It's not like I gawk at them, or whistle or anything like that. I mean, do you check out other guys?' So, I thought for a moment, and said 'Well, yeah I do....' all the while thinking 'But, it's not the same....you're my boyfriend. You're not supposed to want to check anyone else out.' And feeling bad about myself. I ended up apologizing for blowing up at him. I'm such a damned hypocrite because I check out other guys, and he checks out other girls, but I still can't get that bad feeling out of my heart when I think about him looking at other girls. It is fucking human nature to look at attractive people, so why am I still bothered when I know that it's just a thing that everyone does? Such a hypocrite. I hate seeming like a jealous little girl, but I guess that is what I am. I would just love some other's opinions. So my question to you ladies is:
Do you know if your SO looks at other men/women? How does it make you feel? Do you do it as well? Do you even care if they do it in front of you, or when you're not around? Why or why not?