My fiance and I just celebrated our 6th anniversary of dating, and somehow we are both still virgins. I didn't even know it was possible to date for 6 years without having sex. Not to mention that we're 24, so we aren't even getting married super young...
I'm proud that we've waited this long, but it can be frustrating! I think about sex constantly now. It dominates my thoughts at work, in meetings, even in church sometimes (sorry). Will this go away when we finally do start having sex, or will I just get worse?
We are getting married this year, but it's so hard to wait because I feel like I'm past my prime. My fiance can deal with waiting because he started masturbating this year, but that is not an option for me because I don't enjoy it. I'm actually afraid I would have enjoyed sex more at a younger age and now I'm beyond ready and overripe (lol).
It would be easier to manage if I could talk about it, but I don't think my friends and family want to hear about my sex life... it's TMI and they don't care. I just want him so badly and I feel like waiting now is a big sacrifice so I want to shout it from mountain tops.
Is there anyone else out there who is waiting until marriage? I guess I'm just looking for support and reassurance that we aren't the only ones.