combeefly (combeefly) wrote in vaginapagina,

Soreness and sometimes painful sex

My boyfriend and I have been together for about 9 months and the sex is always great. In the past few months, though, the sex has gotten painful at times and leaves me sore more and more often. This was never a problem in the beginning but now I feel sore after about one or two sessions over the course of a weekend. Sometimes it feels as if something tore and othertimes (like this weekend) I feel sore around my opening.
I don't think time or lubrication is a problem. I sometimes feel this way even when I'm lubricated enough and we're in an LDR so I have at least a week to heal back up.

Any ideas on what the problem could be?
Could I really use more time during foreplay or additional lubrication?
I had two UTIs within the span of about a month and a half towards the beginning of the year and the soreness was never a problem beforehand, though I'm not sure if that could be related.
I've also noticed that when I shave, I get more sore more quickly, but this never seemed a problem during the past - could this be another cause, if so - why wasn't it before?

Sorry if I answered any of my own questions - just want to toss out some of what I'm thinking.
I recently graduated and thus got kicked off my insurance, so I'm thinking of going to PP here in about a month to get a pap and renew my BC and can ask then, but that is a lot of sore weekends inbetween now and then! The pain/soreness obviously decreases the amount of sex we have and I'd like to be able to have sex more frequently without pain!

Thanks in advance, supserstars!
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