I could never get tampons in, it always hurt too bad. I figured i was just nervous about putting some weird foreign object up there and that actual sex would be okay/easier. But today I tried to have sex for the first time with my boyfriend and it hurt SO BAD. Like 1 - 10 it was a 10. I wanted to, i dont think that it was because i was really nervous or anything. We had to stop because it hurt so bad that i was crying and his penis wasn't even in very much if at all yet. I've never even been able to get a finger in without hurting, and neither has my boyfriend. If i look at my vulva in the mirror, where my vagina is has a blob of skin protuding out of it sort of, or sometimes its in there, not protuding, but its blocking it. All my periods i have are normal, if that matters.
I know he didnt mind and he didnt get upset, but it upsets me and makes me feel abnormal and inadequate :( If you guys could help me, maybe tell me what i'm doing wrong or any suggestions what's goin on down there i'd REALLY appreciate it. thanks :)