So like many of you I have a somebody who is VERY interested in anal exploration. I get nervous about all the typical stuff, will it hurt?, will the unmentionable happen and gross him/us out?, etc. But the big one that holds me back is the idea that it will somehow become all he wants or at least preferred. 1 because I had our kids vaginally so I am afraid of being in competition with myself somehow because I'll want regular sex and he will always feel like the tighter anal sex is better and 2 what if he loves it and I really don't? As it is with work and little kids I don't get as much man action as I want, and once he is done for the night thats it so if he keeps giving his hard ons to the back side when will the nanny see any action?