violetstar124 (violetstar124) wrote in vaginapagina,
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Long term relationship and condoms

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now (my longest relationship)-- he's great and I love him a lot. Recently he's brought up how uncomfortable condoms are and how he'd much rather be inside me with no barrier. I'm on the pill (Lutera) and take it pretty much perfectly (never missed one, take within 2 minutes every day). While he does have a good argument that the pill is almost perfectly effective, I'm still a bit hesitant to stop using condoms. Pregnancy is not an option right now so I feel that the more forms of contraception we use, the better. It seems that he really only has a problem "feeling me" the second or third time we have sex in a row-- first time he never seems to have a problem. I know other couples shouldn't necessarily be an indicator of what to do...but do most of you ladies on the pill have condom-less sex? Did you make your partner get tested beforehand? I obviously want him to have the most pleasurable sex possible but don't want it to come at the expense of making me concerned every time we have sex. Do you think pill + long term, committed relationship + condoms is unnecessary/irrational? Also, any suggestions for ultra thin condoms (seems like a plausible solution)? We tried Trojan ultra thins and they broke THREE times. Never again trying those.

Thanks so much all!
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