Demi (the_demiurges) wrote in vaginapagina,

Couple of first time/virgin questions

Hello! :) Someone referred me here for my questions, and I've found many of the older posts very helpful, but I still have a few questions.

My boyfriend and I have been dating for quite some time, and we're both virgins and as such both STI-free. We've been sexually active in that he's fingered me and I've given him blowjobs. Recently, we've started talking about having sex. Both of us want to, but we've decided to wait until I can get on birth control, just to be safe. However we've discussed condoms, and neither of us have any idea what kind to buy! I wish they just came "regular" haha. He seems to want to be the one to buy them, and he keeps asking me what kind I would like and I just don't have an answer for him because I honestly don't know! And I don't know how I would know to tell him. :( I barely know what kinds are out there.

Also, just today he told me he'd like to try to give me oral sex, according to him because I do so much for him and I deserve it. I figure this stems from an earlier conversation, and he really wants to be able to make me orgasm (he never has). Oral sex has always kind of intrigued me and I think it would be really nice, but I never really felt the need to ask for it, I've always been sort of content. I don't really know how to act or what to expect, and I'm really scared I still won't be able to reach orgasm and it'll make him upset... :( I think he feels like he should be able to, even though I've assured him its fine. I mean it would be awesome if he could, but I don't expect it.

Any advice/help would be much appreciated!
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