Hi! I'm a long-time lurker, first time poster with a dummy account. As far as I've known, I've never orgasmed. My boyfriend has been trying for over a year to get me to orgasm, but without luck. Well, yesterday, he was performing oral sex on me. It took a while, but I finally felt like I went over the eduge - like waves of heat were washing down my arms and pulsing around my clitoris. It felt great, but it wasn't exactly mind blowing. Was this an orgasm? I guess I've always expected something more... explosive!