I'm in a quandry. I find that I get ridiculously wet during sex. Which is great because I don't have to spend money on lube, but it's starting to get very annoying for both me and my partner. I go beyond wet to the point where I'm practically dripping the stuff and as a consequence both he and I lose all sensation during sex and he ends up losing his erection. It's not particularly fun for either of us.
So I guess the question is two-fold. Firstly, anything I can do to dry myself up a little bit? Secondly, are there any positions that would help us increase the friction during sex to make it more pleasurable for both of us? At the moment I go on top so he can pretty much hold my hips to stop him slipping out.
Any advice would be most appreciated. Thanks in advance!