shira. (stardust0) wrote in vaginapagina,

Turned on but not wet?

Ok, let me start off by saying that I'm on the pill...Alesse to be more exact.
I think that may be the problem. My boyfriend lives out of the country and I see him every 2 months for a week.

So, you can imagine there is a lot of sex happening...or trying to happen. My issue is that I get so turned on, but it takes me a long, long time to get wet, and then orgasm. It's annoying, because then I start thinking too much if it doesn't happen right away, which prolongs it even more. But, you see, usually I'm SO turned on - like bright red cheeks, hot in the face turned on.

However, on some occasions, it even takes me long to get turned on! I know this has nothing to do with my boyfriend I find him extremely attractive, and since we don't see each other a lot, I have a hard time keeping my hands off him when I do.

I really just don't know why this happens. I've never had to use lube before, and I don't really want to. I've been on the pill for almost a year now and this issue really started about a month into the pill use. Before then, I would be uncomfortably wet if he just WINKED at me. LOL

It's irritating. Is there anything I can do to fix this, aside from getting off the pill/using lube? Is this even happening because of the pill?

Thanks guys!!
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