Bleeding after sex without a condom and bringing up sex with boy
My boyfriend and I have been having sex for about a year and a half. We have always used condoms. I have been receiving depo provera shots (2) for the past 5 months. Within the past month, we have started having sex without condom use. I really can't tell a difference but my guy can so woohoo! They problem is that I bleed after sex without a condom. I have rarely bled with a condom, maybe once or twice ever. Since we switched to not using condoms, I've bled nearly every time. It's not a lot of blood but definite spotting. We use lube so I'm pretty positive it's not from the friction. Why? Could his ejaculation be chemically mixing with my bits and making me bleed?
I would really like to start switching it up in bed. We basically always have little foreplay, missionary, and then fall asleep. I would really like to try some new positions or something. My guy is happy with our routine but I'm getting bored. What is the best way to suggest changes? We are really close but don't really talk about sex until we are in the middle of doing it. I would like to maybe look at some sex positions online with him to find something new or maybe video taping ourselves, especially for our Valentine's Day celebration tonight. Oh and a vibrator for my pleasure. How could I go about doing this?